Posted by: underwaterriver | March 31, 2011

Cross-Cultural Caring: Jai Ho!

This is part 10 of the “Cross-Cultural Caring” series. The series deals with tips and tricks that you can use to succesfully make a cross-cultural relationship work.

Jai Ho! You probably recognize that phrase from the movie “Slumdog Millionare”. The phrase means “May victory be yours!”. And that is what I am wishing for you as I tie up this blog series. Writing the blog series stretched me in ways that you can never imagine. It took every skill I had ever learned as a writer to pull this off. As well, doing the project challenged me on an emotional level.

Even though I knew that the things we learned from our friendship could help many people, it still made me nervous to be writing blogs on our relationship and putting them on the internet for all the world to see. It was a project where I had to allow myself to be vulnerable. I kept have to read what I was writing over and over again before I published it to make sure that I was giving an accurate portrayal of our friendship. Because all this didn’t affect just my life but Marisa’s as well.

Little did I know that doing this project would also really make a difference in my relationship with her as well and cause me to be able open on levels that I had only dreamed of. Sitting here spending all those hours thinking and writing about our relationship really put things into perspective for me. The greatest gift doings project gave me was that in the midst of doing all this writing, I got a revelation of Marisa’s heart for me.

You see, I’ve been in so many relationship where ego or self motivation was involved and I ended up getting hurt in the end. But at one point while working on this project, I realized that Marisa’s heart for me was that she really wants to support me and do everything she can to make it work between us. I genuinely have a friendship where I don’t need to worry about her being angry, offended, or hurt at me because I accidently stepped on her ego. And although this project and the blogsite and the series was all new for her, she would truly go to the ends of the earth for me to accomodate me if this is project was special and important and meant something to me.

Having Marisa’s blessing was vitally important to me on this project. The thing I love most about her is that she has such a big heart and she fully supports me sharing things we had learned from our relationship knowing that it would help others. To all of you out there, no matter where you are in the world or whatever language and culture you are dealing with or even what kind of relationships may be in your world….JAI HO!

 

“Love can increase your creativity”

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Responses

  1. If it possible I would like to get the full Teaching , it would be a great help to my future..
    Thankig you i Advance.
    In Christ
    Helen

    • Helen……..I am SO happy that you love this series. The full series is on my blogsite, all 10 starting from the beginning. I have made it so that everything is organized and structured for your convenience. Originally I wrote this series on my other blogsite http://www.makingthesamedifference.blogspot.com It was really popular over there so I decided to organize everything onto a wordpress site. I am glad that you enjoy the series and if you have any questions about cross-cultural relationships. Feel free to ask. And don’t forget to check out my other blogsite because I do talk about my friend and our relationship over there. But now that I see that others are enjoying the articles, I might make a copy on this website.

      in the precious name of Jesus,

      Angelina

  2. Thanks so much for this series! Great that you are both sharing what you have learned and also learning from sharing. Just starting to read this but looking forward to going back to the earlier posts!

    • I am thrilled that you found it useful. I have been simply amazed at the response I’ve been getting. It seems like so many people are in the same situation where they have someone that they love who speaks another language and is from another culture. This series originally appeared on my main blog http://www.makingthesamedifference.blogspot.com But because the series was so popular, I copied it and put it all here on a wordpress blog. Check out my main blog where i am constantly writing about Argentina and cross cultural relationships. Look forward to getting connected with you!


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